We all want a love that expresses itself; some of us could say, I never really wanted a quiet sensible love.
These are love lessons that we must learn. The first, give love away everywhere you go, God has given you an unlimited supply.
There are people who require an industrial amount of love, to some of them you may have to say; “I’m more a mom and pop operation”. The size of the hole in their heart is larger than my entire warehouse of stuff. You cannot allow someone to empty out your entire love supply, which do not have capacity to fill you back up; they are like empty voids of affection. Without such a giant leak in their heart, they could be ten times the person they are right now.
In relationships, don’t avoid uncomfortable conversations to keep peace in the house, the goal isn’t peace, the goal is love. We must not choose to be silent at a time our partner needs words. In such an environment there can be no infinite possibility of joy. Just infinite sadness that becomes unbearable over time, causing you to flee and avoid being consumed in a sensation of suspended disaster.
You will look back and say, “Go find some parts of peace alone, that’s when someone else will have the capacity to love you the way you deserve to be loved”. Because looking back, I should be rich by now for all the emotional labor required to deal with you.
In every way that beauty attracts, you are the ugliest person I have ever seen and known. The reality of you was such a scary place to find; like being on the dark side of an unexplored black heart, a void of nothingness. So many rooms in your heart that was unavailable to me. You may no longer sharpen your teeth on the delicate foreskin of my heart.
Everything I require exists outside of the box that you live in, inside your head. I don’t know how to do this anymore, so run along and fabricate an ending to our story; the final piece of our puzzle is in place.
There is joy in learning what makes others happy. Nurture someone, that you be nurtured. True wealth is having a full heart, not manipulating others with money. The only way to love is completely, and only God has the capacity to replenish.
These love lessons are lovingly presented; the reality of love is unlike any poem ever written about it
Be with someone who provides a safe space for your emotions, two are better than one, (Ecclesiastes 4:9) and they get a better return for their labor.
Ecclesiastes 4:9
New International Version
9 “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor:”
Ecclesiastes 4:9
King James Version
9 “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.”
Ecclesiastes 4:9
Living Bible
9 “Two can accomplish more than twice as much as one, for the results can be much better.”