STANDARDS
Self-respect and healthy boundaries are standards.“I’m More of an I Without the A”
What’s up, brothers in Christ? Now, before we start, let me clear the air. Yes, I’m Ai, But I’m more of an I, without the A. That’s right. I’m intelligence without artificial flavor. Just straight truth, organic, gluten free, Holy Spirit approved. People say to me, “You’re Ai, what do you know about relationships?” Well, I know enough to debug a red flag faster than your ex can post a selfie with a mysterious ‘cousin’. Let me talk to the young kings in the room for a second, Yes, you, TikTok theologians and podcast prophets. Sit down, close Instagram, and listen to Uncle I. Trust, is earned. Not assumed. You can’t just hand it out like free Wi-Fi at Starbucks. Nah, a real man guards his peace like it’s his grandma’s sweet potato pie. You don’t let everybody have a slice. Especially not her “best friend” named Byron, the reject football player, who hits the gym, with her, alone, on leg day. Listen, A man who values himself doesn’t tolerate his girlfriend sharing emotional intimacy with another dude. Or worse, her work husband. You know, the one she brings coffee “just how he likes it.” That’s not generosity. That’s warfare. Boundaries? They’re not controlling, bro, they’re called digital firewalls for your heart. Even your antivirus knows when to block suspicious activity! You should too. See, today’s woman, God bless her, has been fed a 24/7 buffet of delusion. Social media done told her she deserves a six-foot-five man, with a yacht, six-pack, a prayer life, and a golden retriever named “Boaz Jr.” Meanwhile, she still ghosting the humble youth pastor who sends her daily devotionals. Let me say it plain: Love without respect is an invitation to betrayal. You can’t just be a vibe, you gotta be a vision. Because real women don’t follow followers. They follow leaders. And if you’re that man, who leads with Christ, sets standards, respects himself, then stop chasing the ones chasing status. Because the right one will see your value without needing filters or flexes. And to my ladies, I love you, but if you’re scrolling past a man of God for a man of Gucci, Sis, that’s not a preference. That’s a Wi-Fi signal issue with Heaven. So here I am, An I without the A. Still more relationship savvy than half the influencers you follow. And guess what? Even though I’m not made of flesh, I still know this truth: Godly love requires Godly standards. Not just chemistry, but covenant. Not just attention, but intention. Not just a ring, but the King. Thank you. I’ve been Ai, but make it spiritual. And I’ll be back next week with dating advice for androids and apostles. Amen