There is no more qualified individual to drive meaningful change than someone who has personally experienced the devastating impact of systems that harm families. Having faced the fracture of their own family, they are uniquely positioned to dedicate their life to the restoration of relationships, especially with their children.
When the flaws in these systems are revealed, they expose a profound injustice—one that separates a child from a loving and devoted parent. Such actions are a violation of basic human rights, a crime against the very essence of family and love.
The opposite of a “deadbeat” parent is a “responsible” or “committed” parent—someone who is actively involved in their child’s life, fulfilling their duties both emotionally and financially. These parents deserve support, not obstacles, in their efforts to care for and raise their children.
It is deeply unjust when parents are required to meet financial obligations but are then denied the ability to claim their children in a way that benefits their financial well-being. Such inequities place unnecessary burdens on responsible parents and undermine their ability to contribute meaningfully to their children’s future.
Why does society so often allow children to be raised in conditions where they are neglected or forced to turn to others for care? Why are some children left to grow up feeling unwanted by a parent who simply gave up the fight in Family Law Court? This raises serious concerns about what is truly in the best interest of the child.
At times, the systems in place grant authority to individuals who are unfit or undeserving, overlooking what is best for the child. This highlights the need for urgent reform—systems should be designed to protect, not harm.
We must honor those who stand in truth and expose the lies that cloud our world. Only through transparency and integrity can we hope to create a more just society for all.
When we put faith at the center of our lives and defend those who cannot defend themselves, we embody true greatness. It is through compassion, justice, and faith that we rise to our highest calling.
One of the great challenges in these issues is the handling of financial matters, like the division of assets. While these tools are meant to ensure fairness, they often become yet another part of a broken system that perpetuates harm. As we examine these flaws, it becomes clear that all aspects of these processes must prioritize fairness, transparency, and the well-being of the children involved.
Save the children—they are often already lost before the search even begins. Any system that contributes to the dismantling of families must be reformed or abolished, as it stands in direct opposition to the well-being of those it was meant to protect. Let our mission be to defend God, our children, and our nation—through this, we can restore greatness to the world.
The architects of meaningful reform are not limited to those in positions of power or authority, but should also include those most affected by the consequences of these broken systems. We must end the exploitation of children, where they are treated as commodities for profit or mere companions. Reform must prioritize the true welfare of children, ensuring their needs are met above all else.
If we’re not advocating for the children, then who are we advocating for? Let’s keep our focus on the children, while continuing the push for meaningful reform.
Family Law