There are many with narcissistic traits, there are as many with empathetic traits as well. These two personality types are drastically opposed in terms of their motivations and sensitivities. A narcissist is viewed as having no empathy; thriving on a need for admiration or respect. Highly sensitive people are regarded as having a personality of empathy; tuned in sponges to the emotions of others. The narcissists appear to have a stronger personality, yet their kryptonite is the attraction they have of those from whom they can benefit.
The empathetic person listens closely and feels deeply for what others may be feeling or thinking, to the point of absorbing their pains; taking them on as their own. Empathetic people will listen to narcissist without interruption, giving them the spotlight they desire. With their big hearts, the empathetic are generous, intuitive, and can be counted on as friends in times of need. Those narcissists who function on the dark side of human thinking analyze others for the purpose of manipulation. Imbued with empathy, the personality type of the empathetic can recognize emotions in the faces of the narcissist, thereby making them astute in the art of evasion.
There is an attractive force between two objects with opposite charges. This is known as “opposites attract law.” For two positively charged objects wield a repulsive force against each other.
In human consciousness we can be drawn to another for the wrong reasons. As in the way that empathetic people are preyed upon by one seeking to take advantage of their traits, so too can narcissist; becoming hunted, being enticed or tempted by their fleshly appetite for admiration. The finely tuned trait of a neutrally wired and selfless Empath draws those who seek to take advantage of what appears to be an opportunity. Ultimately realizing they have been unwittingly snared by a contrary force. This leads to a lifelong pursuit in search of balance in dualism.
An extroverted Narciss type is no match for an introverted Empath with a finely tuned moral compass. A purpose driven Empath works best in quiet, less crowded, non-toxic spaces. Their sensitive power is greatest when produced in a peaceful still place.
God’s Kingdom workers do so from a quiet spirit of Empath and light. Never being comfortable in sin, but always mindful that workers of darkness are drawn to the light with an assignment to abort Kingdom purpose. As good listeners, the Empathetic Kingdom worker quietly awaits an opening to minister and impart the Word of God. They know when God is glorified; He will draw men unto them.
The joy of following a King who had no earthly kingdom during His lifetime comes through faith. The role of faith in the function of a nation is representative of an earthly kingdom nation that renounces its oppressive old nature daily, allowing diversity to emerge. Through strong yet humble-minded leadership that governs its affairs from a position of Heavenly virtues. Democracy thrives when its leaders learn to love what God loves; against this manner of rule, there are no laws.
Such a place of Empath shall draw the world to its boundary breaking method of government, turning enemies to friends. Thereby becoming an example of humble leadership, and a fountain nation from which the world can drink. This nation will rule until the return of Jesus, as a source of food, healthcare, and an uncompromised church that has made atonement for remission of sin.
James 4:10
10 “Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you”
Deuteronomy 8:2
2 “And thou shalt remember all the way which the Lord thy God led thee these forty years in the wilderness, to humble thee, and to prove thee, to know what was in thine heart, whether thou wouldest keep his commandments, or no.”
2 Kings 22:19
19 “Because thine heart was tender, and thou hast humbled thyself before the Lord, when thou heardest what I spake against this place, and against the inhabitants thereof, that they should become a desolation and a curse, and hast rent thy clothes, and wept before me; I also have heard thee, saith the Lord.”
2 Chronicles 7:14
14 “If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.”
2 Chronicles 12:6
6 “Whereupon the princes of Israel and the king humbled themselves; and they said, The Lord is righteous.”