(Proverbs 18:22) He finds what is good and receives favor. When a man finds a good woman, she doesn’t need anything more than what she’s got. She had exactly what he needed, at the time that he needed it, and therefore, she doesn’t need anything else. God shows man favor, the man shows his wife favor by sharing with her all that God has blessed him with. She will never need to have, or be anymore than she has or is, at the time found. Because she had just the right stuff, at the right time, that her man needed what she’s got. So there is nothing more, (zilch) that she needs to be the perfect woman for her man.
One, who is not right for a man, is like an immature woman, who fails to put her pride aside. She will care more about what others think, while her potential man will pay attention to her actions, or lack thereof. If she’s a rich woman, less of her or her riches will be shared with the right man. However, like “a woman who has many casual sexual encounters or relationships”, she shares her body, mind, and possessions with the wrong men. This is a Jezebel spirit, and a spirit of this type will turn her over to a reprobated mind. Such a mindset will lead her to desire lying with another woman instead of a man. Some will continue their quest to be found by a man, and some will surrender to the intimacy they found in another woman.
Many are promoting, “love who you love”, and God will still love you. We agree that God will still love you, despite your personal choices; HE is the God of love. But we owe it to those that we chose, and those who may chose us, to be honest about our past. Whether man or woman, never keep your past secret from a future mate. Choose liberty over the false pride of secrecy.
To the young man, follow the leadership of those who are older and wise. (1 Peter 5:5-6) Let us all serve each other with humble spirits. A good man looks for a woman who is in the spotlight of God and not the mirror of conceit. When God favors her, she doesn’t need anything else when a good man finds her. Don’t change her; she’s perfect just as she is.
To the young woman, don’t give up on yourself and become loose. Fight for your destiny, one day a good man will find you. Find a Bible centered church and be in the company of others seeking God. Dress like Godly women dress, and be welcomed amongst the followers of Christ. The chances of being found by a good man is greater in the house of God, than in the wicked world.
When God is for you, no devil, hater, or curse can be against you. (Romans 13:11) Time is running out, another reason for right living. (Psalms 50:15) We can call on God in our day of trouble; HE wants us to trust and glorify HIM.
Proverbs 18:22
New International Version
22 “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.”
Proverbs 18:22
King James Version
22 “Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.”
Proverbs 18:22
Living Bible
22 “The man who finds a wife finds a good thing; she is a blessing to him from the Lord.”
1 Peter 5:5-6
New International Version
5 “In the same way, you who are younger, submit yourselves to your elders. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because,
“God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” 6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time.”
1 Peter 5:5-6
King James Version
5 “Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all of you be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble.
6 Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time:”
1 Peter 5:5-6
Living Bible
5 “You younger men, follow the leadership of those who are older. And all of you serve each other with humble spirits, for God gives special blessings to those who are humble, but sets himself against those who are proud. 6 If you will humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, in his good time he will lift you up.”
Romans 13:11
New International Version
The Day Is Near
11 “And do this, understanding the present time: The hour has already come for you to wake up from your slumber, because our salvation is nearer now than when we first believed.”
Romans 13:11
King James Version
11 “And that, knowing the time, that now it is high time to awake out of sleep: for now is our salvation nearer than when we believed.”
Romans 13:11
Living Bible
11 “Another reason for right living is this: you know how late it is; time is running out. Wake up, for the coming of the Lord is nearer now than when we first believed.”
Psalm 50:15
New International Version
15 “and call on me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you, and you will honor me.” ”
Psalm 50:15
King James Version
15 “And call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me.”
Psalm 50:15
Living Bible
14-15 “What I want from you is your true thanks; I want your promises fulfilled. I want you to trust me in your times of trouble, so I can rescue you and you can give me glory.”